Never keep the key of your happiness in somebody else’s pocket.
The people they hurt others just to get benefited from the situations are real monsters in the modern society. I was really shocked, when I realized that some people stay extremely happy when they hurt other people. Just because, they are envy of them or they use to have some hidden intentions behind that. I use to always wonder what kind of human beings they are.
How could one stay happy while making others sad? And then slowly -slowly I realized that sometimes they have something on their mind to tell you but doesn’t have guts to convey it directly. So they convey their messages through your loved ones so you may get hurt and they will be happy. It doesn’t end up here. They even fulfil their intentions and get benefited from the situation. While you keep fighting with the person who was the direct messenger for you or keep fighting with yourself. Why the hell on the earth you chose such person as your loved one.
“Really crazy people.” They are all around and everywhere. You may have such a person as family member or one of relative. It’s really hard to think about such a situation. Well there’s no particular reason why they do so. “Your happiness is your responsibility” So don’t expect others to make you happy either you will be always disappointed by others.
Supper Tips To Always Stay Happy.
Stay away from negativity.
Have you ever noticed that, after hearing someone go off or always being surrounded by negative people you feel worked up and pessimistic? Negativity is contagious, so be careful not to catch it. Sure, we all have to vent once in a while but, when you surround yourself with someone who’s always complaining, you’ll find yourself being a Negative too. So just maintain some distance and embrace positivity!
MASTER THE ART OF ADAPTION.
When things do go wrong you need to roll with the punches. Being resilient is one of the most valuable character traits to master and will help you get through anything life throws your way.
Stay out of TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS.
Yes, I know I what said you should accept people for who they are (and you should!), but that sometimes means accepting that a person isn’t good for you.
It may be your relative or someone close to you. If that’s who does nothing but bring you down and cause you stress, make you feel worse. Just maintain safe distance from such a person. Either it may become toxic for your life as well.
You are the source OF YOUR HAPPINESS.
The only person on this planet who can make you feel complete is you. Focus on yourself, follow your passions and do the things that truly make you happy.
Follow your passion and wants.
Rather than being miserable about what you don’t have, be proactive in going after what you want. Life doesn’t hand you opportunities; you have to make things happen.
There is nothing in the world which could trouble you more than your negative overthinking.
Just Master These 6 Super Tips to Stop Overthinking and Start Living.
First Get Toll on Your Thinking.
Most of the time, we automatically replay various events in mind. When you're replaying events in your mind over and over, or worrying about things you can't control, acknowledge that your thoughts aren't productive. Thinking is only helpful when it leads to positive action. Any time you find yourself doubting or feeling stressed or anxious take a pause and try to evaluate are really responding to the situation in optimistic way?
Think Positively About the Outcome.
Most of the times overthinking is caused by a single emotion called fear. Keep the focus on problem-solving. Visualize all the things that can go right and keep those thoughts present and up front.
Live in The Present Moment.
Don’t dwell on past or what may come in the future. You worry or not any how tomorrow is going to come. You don’t have control over the past events but yes you can welcome each moment in life and live it fully and consciously. You will automatically have productive impact on your future.
The Thing you are worrying about does really matters for the long time?
It's always easy to make things bigger and more negative than they need to be. The next time you catch yourself making a mountain out small mud, ask yourself how much it will really matter to you. Does it really going to make any long-term impact on your life? Try to find the right answer to this question.
Progress is better than waiting for perfection.
This formula is a crucial one. For all of us who are waiting for perfection, we can stop waiting right now. Being ambitious is great but aiming for perfection is unrealistic, impractical, and debilitating. The moment you start thinking "This needs to be perfect" is the moment you need to remind yourself, "Waiting for perfect is never as smart as making progress."
We can’t predict Our Future.
No one knows what future holds for you. No one can predict the future accurately; all we have is a present moment. If you spend the present moment worrying about the future, you are robbing yourself of your time now. Spending time on the future is simply unproductive. Spend that time instead on things that give you joy or creating your future productively.