As a human being decision making is our ultimate power. Just don’t waste it. Use it wisely and never take suggestions from people, who indeed have nothing to do with end results.
There's no wonder, as you would have also heard people saying several times that we have got only one life. If that’s true then why we always spend our valuable time while wondering about what others will think if I do so and so thing!!! Even most of the people do the stuffs just for others sake. If you are really noble and want to dedicate your life and services for others benefit then this is really a great and honorable thing. But if you are just simply living the way to match others expectations, like a Baa Baa Black sheep then do you really worth something???
Why you should be always judged by others opinion??? Even I have met a people saying that they wear so and so...kind of cloths because their relatives or family members like them. Why is it so????
Don’t you have your own choice, your own expectations and dreams about life???
If you accept the fact that you have got this life for one time then why are you wasting it while becoming a show piece for others??? Be true and honest with yourself. Love yourself as you are. Everybody is different individual so have different choices, goals and dreams.
For small... small things we depend on others. That’s OK, as kid or junior member in office or in family we can always ask for suggestions but that doesn’t mean we should always do the stuffs what others feels good. How long one can keep others pleasing??? So try to take your own decisions and take full control and responsibility of your life.
While even doing a routine works instead of ourselves we always wonder what others will be thinking about us. I really want to do this stuff but what if no one likes it. If you are a person who always thinks about others judgments then this is the right time to think. Are you really living this life on your terms and for yourself or you have sacrificed it for others just being their show piece????