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How to Deal with Difficult People

5/2/2018

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In our daily life several times we come across the people we don’t like to interact with, we don’t want to deal with or discuss the stuffs. But what if they are your family members or close relatives???

When it comes to family, though how difficult it is to deal with them you are clearly left with no choice. It could be your in-laws, close relatives or family friends. So just go ahead and take a challenge. If so, you'll want to know how to interact with them and not drive yourself crazy in the normal daily basis discussions. Deal with your difficult relatives by staying calm and being assertive. Then, follow strategies to make interactions with them more pleasant. Also, it can help to distance yourself from them when it's necessary to save your sanity.

Listen to Listen- If it’s your family member or relative then you know the person well. Whatever he is saying just listen to it although you have nothing to with it.  I know some times it’s really annoying. So do one thing don’t give even a single thought about it if it’s really bla....bla and bla...Just listen to listen. That person can’t enter into your head or mind to check if you are seriously listening to him. This is one of the best principles to maintain your relation and even you are not giving damn about anybodies murmuring. Just save your energy for good work.

Listen Calmly- Listening is the most important step in dealing with "unreasonable" people. It may happen that it’s really necessary to hear the front person when he is talking about your or families well being. Everyone wants to feel heard. No progress can take place until the other person feels acknowledged. While you're listening, really focus on what the other person is saying, not what you want to say next.
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Don’t Judge- We never knows what the other person is going through. Chances are, if a person is acting unreasonable, they are likely feeling some sort of anxiety, insecurity, vulnerability or fear.

Stay calm-When a situation is emotionally charged, you may get annoyed. Just stay conscious and present at the same moment and try deep breathing.
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Show Respect- Show respect and dignity toward the other person. No matter how a person is treating you, showing contempt will not help to resolve the situation. It may get worse.
Look for the unfolded intention- No one can go crazy or behave like a dog without any intention or reason. Sometimes the front person may not be able to tell you his intention behind all the drama. So just look out for the possible hidden need. What is this person really trying to prove?

Try to talk about it with your other family members you are good with. Who knows you may get the permanent solution for this problem.

Avoid Smiling- As this may look like you are mocking the person.  Sometimes it can lighten the mood, but more often than not, it’s risky and it may backfire.

Don’t act defensively- This is really tough. You’re naturally not enjoying the other person saying nasty things or things that you know aren’t true. You’re going to want to defend yourself. But the other person is grown so emotional; it’s not going to help. Remember, this is not about you. Don’t take it personally.

Raising your voice, pointing your finger, or speaking disrespectfully to the other person will add fuel to an already heated situation. Use a low, calm, even monotone voice. Don't try to talk over the person. Wait until the person takes a breath and then speak. Don't argue or try to convince the other person of anything.
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 After the situation is over, talk to someone about what happened. Discharge your own feelings and stress. Give yourself credit for getting through an uncomfortable situation. It takes a lot of energy not to act like a jerk when someone else is behaving nasty. 

47 Comments
Janavi Gupta
5/4/2018 05:51:45 am

Really nice article and useful information. I would really appreciate to read more realistic blogs the one you write. they are really helpful to me. Thanks.

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 01:55:53 pm

Thanks Janavi.

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Deepak Arora
5/4/2018 06:01:38 am

Hello Vrushali,
I really love to read your blogs. They are really informative and motivating. The genre you write on are really special. I also really liked your last post
http://www.daretobesuccessful.com/relationships/let-it-the-past-go-and-move-forward
Really happy to read more articles from you. They are truly inspired and helpful.
Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 01:56:56 pm

I am really glad to read it. Thanks

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Nishi Patel
5/4/2018 06:11:03 am

Dear Vrushali,
You are really a blessed blogger. Your blogs are really able to answer all the daily basis questions one can have. I would really like to read your posts in future. God bless you my dear!

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 01:57:39 pm

Thanks a lot!

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Somnath R Patil
5/4/2018 06:47:21 am

Hi, I really like your writing. My wife doesn't know English but I translated your posts in marathi for her and she too really liked them. As I have sent a message to you on Facebook I would like to request you, can you please write the same posts in marathi?
Or maybe you can start your YouTube channel so marathi people also can easily get all the information.
You are really a very good writer. I and my family will really like to read and know more from you.
Thanks a lot.

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Rupali Joshi
5/4/2018 06:56:16 am

Hi, I am a retired teacher. I really find your posts good. I saw your books and articles on Google they are awesome. I saw your Facebook profile you are really young and motivating author and blogger. You really look beautiful.
I am really agreed with Somnath. Why don't you start your video channel in Marathi? We really don't have all this information available in Marathi. Most of the people badly need it. Please give though to our opinions.
You are really gorgeous. God bless you my dear.

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:06:57 pm

Hello,
Thanks a lot for the best feedback. I am really glad to read it.
Yes, in future I will definitely think about translating same posts in Marathi.
YouTube channel is a best suggestion. I really appreciate it. In future I will surely think about it.
Thanks for all the valuable blessings.


Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:09:13 pm

Dear Somnath,
I am really glad that my writing pleased you and your family. Thanks a for the valuable feedback.
Yes, in future I will definitely think about translating same posts in Marathi.
YouTube channel is a best suggestion. I really appreciate it. In future I will surely think about it.

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Rohan Sohani
5/5/2018 01:42:01 am

I too really loved this article. Most of the times I too have to talk with the people I don't like. You gave really nice tips. Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:03:19 pm

Thanks You

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Snehal Dhumal
5/5/2018 03:10:28 am

Wow nice article with very sweet tips. I look forward to read more from you. Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:10:01 pm

Thanks

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Kunal Khese
5/5/2018 11:31:32 am

Hi Vrushali, 
Very good post!! I have really became your one of big fan. 
I read your novels and articles as well. You are really a good writer and beautiful person. 
I too agree it's really a nice idea to open your new YouTube channel where you can provide all this information. It's really motivating. 
Would like to read more from you. 
Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:12:12 pm

Dear Kunal,
I am really happy to know that you liked my novels and blogs.
YouTube channel is a best suggestion. I really appreciate it. In future I will surely think about it.
Thanks

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Aayesha Khan
5/5/2018 01:54:39 pm

Outstanding writing. Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:13:18 pm

Thank You.

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Amit lashkare
5/6/2018 08:19:44 pm

Very nice writing...... . Thanks. ...

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:13:55 pm

Thanks a lot!!

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Pravin Tatkar
5/7/2018 03:17:15 am

Hi Vrushali,
Really nice and easy to follow tricks. most of the time its really hard to talk to irritating people.
Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:14:46 pm

Thanks !

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Nitin Sharma,
5/7/2018 03:59:36 am

Hi Vrushali,
Whatever you write is really excellent. really fabulous information and tips. Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:15:17 pm

Thank You!

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Sandeep Kulkarni
5/7/2018 04:04:51 am

Hello Vrushali,
Really nice ideas. Hope you can give thought to your own YouTube channel .you are really doing fabulous job. Hoping to read more from you.
Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:17:20 pm

Hello Sandeep,
Thanks for the feedback. YouTube channel is a best suggestion. I really appreciate it. In future I will surely think about it.

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Pranjal Gujar
5/7/2018 04:11:18 am

Hello Vrushali,
I am really happy to read your posts again. Its really motivating. I read your book
" the Fortune Fighter" you are really nice author. Your Novels are also excellent and thriller.
I am one of your bog Fan.
Hoping to read more novels and posts from you.
WAITING FOR YOUR NEW YOU-TUBE CHANNEL!!!

Thanks a lot!!

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:19:08 pm

Dear Pranjal,
I am really glad that you liked my novels and blogs.
YouTube channel is a best suggestion. I really appreciate it. In future I will surely think about it.
Thanks

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Avinash Saxena
5/7/2018 04:17:25 am

Hello Vrushali,
I was really missing your blogs. Your writing really have a magic. Really nice posts with more beautiful ideas.
You are really nice author and motivational writer.
You are the best young thriller writer. I loved your novel THE PASSION BECAME DESTINY.
Hoping to read more from you.
Thanks a lot!!

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:22:21 pm

Dear Avinash,
I am really happy to know that you liked my novel and blogs. thanks a lot for the feedback.

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Mayank Shirke
5/7/2018 05:27:25 am

Hello, really outstanding tips. I really love to read your posts. Thanks

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Arvind Koli
5/7/2018 07:07:06 am

Hello Mam,
Its really useful for me. I am a degree student now. it becomes really hard to concentrate on studies sometimes. Can you please write a article on concentration or Focus?
Thank you very much!!

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 01:54:50 pm

Hello Arvind,
I am really happy about it. Yes, in few days I will update a article about Focus or concentration. If you still have any topic on minds then please feel free to update it in the comment section.




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Rohini Kanchan
5/7/2018 11:55:44 am

Hi Mam,
I too liked your posts. They are really good. Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:20:08 pm

Thanks a lot.

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Vrushali Khedekar
5/7/2018 02:23:08 pm

Thank you!!!

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Seema Patel
6/17/2018 12:08:28 pm

Hi Dear,
Thanks a lot for this post. It's really motivating and useful. Your blogs are really supportive. I badly need advice on this topic. Some time's it's really hard to face these worse people. I don't know why some people can't see my happiness.
Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
6/20/2018 04:32:25 am

Hello Seema,
Thanks for the valuable feedback.
Coming to the next point-For any advice
Please write me on vrushali.s.khedekar@gmail.com
@@ No one one can spoil your happiness till you have full control over your thoughts and mind.@@
#Be Positive and optimistic
#Don't let others judgments or opinions to tackle your mood
Hope it may help you.

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Seema Patel
6/20/2018 04:35:06 am

Hi Dear,
Thanks for the reply and the valuable tips.
Will get in touch with you on email.
Thank you very much.

Roshni Jha
8/16/2018 04:34:55 am

Hello Vrushali,
This is the outstanding answer you have given to Seemas question. You are really a motivating and optimistic person. I am really happy to read your posts.
Thanks

Prathamesh Khude -Patil
6/18/2018 04:09:16 am

Hello Mam,
I really found this article helpful and motivating. Your posts are really great.
You will really run a YouTube channel.
This are the topics we really need for personal and professional growth but no institute offer it yet,
If possible please give a serious thought to your YouTube channel. That too in Marathi Language.
Thanks

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Vrushali Khedekar
6/20/2018 04:37:10 am

Thanks for the valuable feedback. Yes, soon planing to start with YouTube channel.

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Atul Vankudre link
6/19/2018 03:39:18 am

Hello vrushali your Novel is very interesting and amazing that is true and fine your mind is really writing to true thot
Nice, I like your Novel's nd lovely

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Vrushali Khedekar
6/20/2018 04:40:43 am

Hello Atul,
Thank for the valuable feedback.
I am really glad that you liked my novels and blogs.
I hope in future you will love to read my posts and novels.

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Hi Vrushali,
I really loving your posts. they are amazing.

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